Bear These Things in Mind About FWB Relationships

A few years ago, I spent all my time and energy on my work. In my opinion, that's my golden age, and achieving success at work is the most important thing I should do. Therefore, I haven't considered looking for a long-term dating relationship in real life, because in my opinion, it takes too much time and energy to run a stable dating relationship. And I wasn't ready to spend the rest of my life with another person. But my physical desires are not under my control. Fortunately, in my conversation with another friend of mine, I was surprised to find that he had the same experience as me. In this way, we are like Mars hitting the earth to arouse the spark of desire. There was an agreement between us that we only had sex, not feelings. But in the end, our FWB relationship ended in failure. Damn it, I fell in love with my friend, but he didn't. In this way, I lost my NSA relationship and a friendship.

As we can learn from my story, maintaining a healthy FWB relationship seems simple, but it is a very complex thing. If you simply think that the FWB relationship is just about having sex on the basis of your friendship, then you're wrong. It's only in the ideal state. If you want to have a deeper understanding of the NSA relationship, you need to keep these points in mind.

1. There are differences between FWB relationship and NSA relationship

From my chat with casual encounters, I found that many of them confused FWB relationship with NSA relationship. They will think the two different types of relationships are the same. The premise of the FWB relationship is that both parties are friends before joining the relationship. For some reason, they benefit each other by going to bed. However, in NSA relationships, even if two people are strangers, they can establish such a relationship. In this relationship, two people don't have to give a commitment. Sex is the only thing they want from it.

2. Choosing the right friend can make things easier

In general, it's difficult for them to maintain a FWB relationship because they don't fully understand and prepare for the relationship. If you don't know the importance of choosing the right person as your sexual partner, you are likely to choose someone recklessly and casually, and then enter into such a relationship. So the casual result is that when your relationship ends, especially when it ends in disagreement, you will feel embarrassed if you and him inevitably meet every day. Therefore, don't build such a relationship with your colleagues or relatives; don't build such a relationship with someone you have a very good relationship with; don't build such a relationship with someone you like or someone who likes you.

3. Feelings may develop

Even in a relationship where relationships should be avoided, they may develop out of your control. When you find out you are in love with your partner, don't blame yourself or feel guilty because it's human nature. What you need to do is face up to your emotional changes. Either be brave enough to tell your friends or quit the relationship decisively.